Introductions discussion

Hello all. My wife and I are in our mid-to-late twenties, living on the US West Coast, and we’ve maintained an FLR for most of our marriage. It’s been official for about five years now, but it really has always been that way. I have naturally been a subservient, somewhat meek fellow, and from the start I liked serving her in many ways—a trait not so common among men in traditional setups. She was more than pleased with this dynamic, which grew stronger as we dated and married.

From day one of our relationship, I handled all the chores and usually sacrificed my own comfort or perks to improve things for her. Apologies if I’m being broad here; I’ll likely share more specifics in later posts. If you listed every way FLR shows up in our lives, it could fill a book. Simply put: if she wants something that can be provided through one of my personal sacrifices, she gets it. Our relationship is built on making her life smoother and happier for both of us. It’s wonderful to see how good someone’s life becomes when two people work toward their benefit!

Regarding chastity, it isn’t the absolute center of our dynamic; FLR holds that spot, with chastity growing out of it as an extension. We started using a cage about four years ago, though I don’t recall the precise date. Early on we had intercourse, but my skills were average at best, so we increasingly swapped sex for me giving her oral care—perfect for our FLR structure since she wasn’t particularly keen on receiving blowjobs over time. As our dynamic deepened, she proposed chastity because she didn’t really need my cock anyway. I don’t have a fixed schedule for release; it happens whenever she feels like it, averaging out to twice yearly.