Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

After a solid discussion tonight, I’ve had quite the learning curve regarding my KH/Dom and me in our locked/sub dynamic. Open communication really helps tenfold in clarifying where we stand, where we aim to be, and how to bridge that gap.

I recently realized just what an investment my KH makes on the chastity side, which actually surprised me; it reaffirms my love and devotion. My KH simply has me doing things for their sexual satisfaction rather than purely for myself, effectively reasserting our roles. Despite not having ejaculated yet, I’m happy with this arrangement—and maybe I shouldn’t be?

Yes, that's normal for a chastity kink. Enjoyment manifests in many styles; if you're happy, then everything else matters (aside from your KH).