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Hi everyone, I have a question regarding the use of electro shock to the genitals as discipline. We're looking to add this into our dynamic and I'm worried…

member_ea7a05df10 14 Sept 2026 #1

Hi everyone, I have a question regarding the use of electro shock to the genitals as discipline. We’re looking to add this into our dynamic and I’m worried about potential risks with this kind of punishment. Does anyone know if there are any dangers or side effects (like nerve damage, burns, etc.)? She plans to purchase one of those dog shock collars available on eBay from China that is suitable for fetish play. So, does anyone have experience with this type of discipline approach? Any insights would be very much appreciated.

member_304f6409a2 15 Sept 2026 #2

Hello @miniweenee69 I can only share my personal experience with these devices; others might have different views. My Mistress has been using one of these dog shock collar units on me for the last few months. She uses it mainly in two ways: First, as a tool of punishment: she straps the unit under my balls to the back of my cage's base ring and then lays me face up while restrained on the bed. As she lectures me about my infractions or anything that displeases her, she just zaps away. The device has settings from 1 to 100. On lower settings, it feels like small pin pricks which is okay, but at higher settings, it's more of a jolt. If taken high enough with long button presses, it becomes quite painful; three or four holds on the highest setting will have me begging her to stop. The second way she uses it is while I am giving her oral pleasure. On low settings, I get zapped occasionally to keep me focused on my task. The threat that she might turn up the intensity definitely keeps me on edge, and I make sure she reaches satisfaction. Since we started using this device, I haven't had any major issues, aside from some very minor burn marks from the electrodes when we first began (which was due to dry skin). We now apply a bit of lube to the contact points and ensure the unit sits tightly against my skin. I believe intensity varies depending on where the unit is placed. I certainly don't see any risk to nerves at lower settings.