Introductions discussion

I’m relatively new to this forum but have been involved with chastity for quite a while. I introduced my wife to the practice years ago; she agreed somewhat reluctantly, and we’ve had an up-and-down relationship with it over time. Usually, we’d try it out for just a few days before putting it back in storage for months on end. A few months back, I confessed that I really want to live more within a Female Led Relationship (FLR) structure, and she’s been kind enough to agree.

Lately, I’ve noticed my habit of masturbating when she isn’t interested or is too exhausted—since she usually falls asleep before me—is undermining the submissive mindset we both want. Of course, if she says no touching, I obey. However, there are stretches where her effort wavers; once I’m allowed to climax, my motivation drops right along with hers, leading to long spells of vanilla, mundane life. To address this, I proposed 24/7 chastity. Surprisingly, she seems much more open to it now than before (I’ve suggested it in the past and faced resistance). She has let me unlock for cleaning a few times recently, but made it clear that when she’s out of the house or we’re heading to bed, I should remain locked up.

It’s been five days since my lock-up began. She hinted at limiting my orgasms to perhaps once a month. Earlier today, she even brought up waiting until Christmas for one. I hope she is mostly joking about that (though a tiny part of me secretly wishes her serious). Here’s hoping we stick with this arrangement this time.

Welcome aboard our group and best wishes as you navigate your chastity path.