Female led relationships discussion

I feel drawn to feminine power. However, I worry when my wife overspends our funds. She leaves me handling the bills and money management, yet she goes ahead and spends the cash I need for paying off debts.

Yes, I like that what I earn becomes hers, but as a partner, she should want to build wealth through saving rather than just spending it down.

What’s my move? Last night I rebelled, leading to an argument. As a slave, am I supposed to accept a life of wasting money and face deep poverty in retirement?

No way. Life is complex. Discuss your joint objectives together and decide the best path forward. Then she can let you manage the money while still holding overall authority in the relationship.

All these different aspects are separate from one another.

Money disagreements are likely the most frequent source of conflict in a partnership. You need open and honest communication about your goals on both sides. I always saw being a slave as prioritizing someone else's needs and desires over your own. To me, ensuring that person’s financial stability is part of that duty. Perhaps if you set up more automatic bill payments to cover debts before the money enters your household, it could be easier to keep her happy. Good luck.

@Slave to Wife - This is a difficult spot for you, but it's crucial to work through it. In our view, the Woman ought to be in charge of home finances. It took us some time to figure out what that actually means and there were struggles along the way. There’s a difference between telling someone they are in charge and them truly being in control of all household spending. She will need time to adjust to this new role, but for her to do so, you must become a passenger. Passenging can be quite hard. You can offer insights, but she ultimately decides how everything works out. Money will always involve some fighting in any home, whether it’s Femdom or not. Likely, She’ll spend like that for a while and then correct herself. However, this correction only happens if She is allowed to listen to Her own voice regarding these matters.