Female led relationships discussion

Things were going well in our FLR with real progress, but my wife has completely shut down. She’s lost interest in being the boss and isn’t showing affection at all. She was never overly cuddly, but she stopped hugging, kissing, and touching me entirely! We discussed it, and her point is that when I behave like a slave to her, she feels zero attraction toward me; she simply wants to return to “normal.”

Has anyone else dealt with this? Especially the ladies here: do you lose attraction to your husbands when they act as slaves?