Female led relationships discussion

Hi all,

I’m not sure how to express this. My partner is a switch and takes on other partners, especially for rope play (I can’t bottom since I’m not masochistic and don’t enjoy it much). I allow him to have these partners when he wants them. He’s in chastity; while I don’t take the submissive role, I do get quite jealous… though I genuinely want my partners to be happy. He tells me how important I am to him, but it doesn’t really change anything…

I also have a few partners myself, yet I feel insecure and sometimes sense things crumbling inside me. I like feeling regal, which isn’t always the case here. Does anyone else experience this dynamic?