Female led relationships discussion

Hello, I’ve been a member here for quite some time and truly love this community, especially the chance to swap ideas. My partner and I have spent about a year exploring her taking charge in our bedroom. I told her how much I want to be submissive to her, and she needed some time to process it. Our intimate moments together have been exciting, and honestly, our sex life has NEVER improved so much. She’s looked into Female Led Relationship (FLR) resources online, and we seem to mesh well. However, “real life” often interferes, leading us through many highs and lows. I work in a professional role with some success, while my wife has stayed home with the kids for roughly four years. Sometimes I wonder what her days look like. Our house isn’t spotless, but she always manages to clear her emails and social media feeds. For a while over the weekends—when I’m well-rested and locked in chastity—I handled EVERY household task. It gave me great satisfaction, particularly when I was wearing my belt, denied release (and consequently VERY aroused). I’d massage her for more than an hour, ensuring she had all the orgasms she desired, then return to being denied. One memorable evening, after she felt sexually satisfied, she commanded me to wash up while she drifted off to sleep. Honestly, we both loved this dynamic. But alas, my professional title has grown alongside us; I am now a boss at work. By the time I get home, I’m often too exhausted for anything else. After texting wifey, I realized that in order for her to truly dominate me (which is what I crave), she feels I need to “cater” more to her needs. Put simply, she wants me to handle a greater share of the chores and foot rubs FIRST, and THEN expect her dominance—a point reinforced by common FLR advice. So here’s my query: how do you find the stamina to “worship your wife” when you hold down a full-time job while she remains at home? I’m fond of our ongoing FLR experiment, but I worry it might be too much… becoming a (literal) slave just so I can untangle my own desires… Can anyone relate? I feel aroused knowing she gets to enjoy her time with friends while I grind away at work… yet do I really have to keep grinding at home after being completely drained? It’s not that I lack the desire, but rather the bandwidth. And - isn’t maintaining a tidy house technically her “role”?