Female led relationships discussion

Hello once more. I need some practical advice. I feel a bit frustrated and quite bewildered. My wife, goddess, or KH is the core of my existence. I cherish her above all else. Yet it feels as though she simply isn’t grasping the concept. What I really desire is to serve as her pet, specifically her sissy pet more precisely. She absolutely adores keeping me locked up and has kept me in panties around the clock now, but that’s mostly where it stops. She releases me frequently for fun and ensures I reach an orgasm each time. I realize I must be cautious about what I ask for, yet I have a strong craving to focus solely on satisfying her sexually while she mocks and utilizes me for my own enjoyment. Honestly, I’m beginning to wonder if she lacks the capacity for it deep down. I know she loves me dearly, so I am wondering whether that close connection might stop us from truly embracing this lifestyle in practice. I really aren’t sure what steps to take or how else to communicate with her. She has noticed that when she treats me like this, I seem much more content. In principle, she understands it’s what I want; however, I believe she worries on some level that it comes off as cruel. Is there a path forward that can help her see the benefits? Any and all suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Sissy Shane