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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hello- It's been years, literally, since I last posted here. Hello to all my good friends who I initially met at and subsequently moved to the community…

member_ddca8310f7 30 Aug 2026 #1

Hello- It’s been years, literally, since I last posted here. Hello to all my good friends who I initially met at and subsequently moved to the community site when MW and pet started the new place. Here is my question (I know this has been covered before so if you can point me to a thread that’d be great): I am currently locked in CB6000s. Since being locked for the last two weeks, my wife has said nothing. I’m beginning to fear she is only interested in preventing me from masturbating. This was my goal as well. However, I “expected” a few other perks. 1) Verbal reminders of my encasement-the more humiliating the better; and 2) More sex-one sided of course with orgasm denial for me. In the last two weeks we have had no sexual contact and no humiliating statements. I am happy to report I have not complained once. I had intended to ask for 1&2 above as a condition of my chastity but when I showed her I was locked and began to speak she interrupted saying “Where’s the key.” When I told she immediately left to take possession of it. I don’t want to top from the bottom or make her feel pressure so I haven’t brought it up again. I know from lurking and reading other posts some folks say-count you blessings because many men do not even have a KH. Or she’s in charge-too bad. I guess I’m in agreement with both of the above…Just wondering if anybody could give me a glimmer of hope that 1 & 2 might come with time. Or someone who has adjusted to this being the limited extent of their chastity experience. Thanks. o2Cum