Female led relationships discussion

Hello, I’d like to know how dommes manage their submissives while they are on their period. My wife doesn’t discuss it much and isn’t interested in being sexual at all during this time. Her bleeding usually goes on for about 5-7 days, and her pre-menstrual symptoms have been intensifying. I’ve read that having an orgasm can provide general relief and might even cut the duration short. I’ve shared several links with her to support this idea, but she seems skeptical and doesn’t allow me much involvement during those days.

The Hitachi Magic Wand works perfectly through her pad—she is fully capable of reaching climax (and actually enjoys it)—but I suspect a negative self-image or sense of shame keeps her from letting me play with her more often. So, while she resists at first, persistence wins out and she lets me pleasure her that way. It might be in my head, but when she does engage during this period, she seems slightly rougher than usual.

She won’t let me penetrate her then either. Since I lack experience with this, I’m unsure what it would feel like. I don’t mind messiness much and believe cleaning up afterward is quite simple.

I’m interested to hear which activities (if any) dommes prefer during their menstrual cycle. Do you have specific rituals or expectations from your subs? Thanks for sharing your thoughts!