Female led relationships discussion

finance.png Lately, the prospect of financial dominance in our partnership has really gotten me excited (think: Money Money Money Moneeey, MONAY!). If Mistress Lauren takes full charge of our finances, it will firmly cement my role as the submissive/slave and hers as the Domme/Mistress. We are starting this journey today by having her open a checking account solely in her name, which I won’t be able to touch at all. I feel nervous yet thrilled, slightly apprehensive but completely smitten with the concept. Here is the outline: • Mistress Lauren establishes a personal checking account. • All funds (minus what’s needed for upcoming scheduled payments) move from our joint account into her new one. • A recurring transfer will be established to send my full paycheck from the joint account to her personal account on payday, leaving the joint account with $0 net gain. • All automatic payment accounts will be updated with the new details. • Accounts that require manual online payments will also have their stored information updated. • Mistress Lauren gets to decide how much, if any, money remains in the joint account for my use. • Any purchase MUST receive her approval before completion. • I am handing over my personal credit card and debit card (for our secondary joint/pseudo-savings account) to her; I eventually want this one removed as well. • Once Mistress Lauren completes school and starts working, her income will be direct-deposited into the new personal account she controls entirely. • She holds absolute, unchallenged authority over our money—how it is spent, saved, or distributed.

This essentially leaves me financially at her mercy (even though I’m currently the only earner). In fact, I might not even be able to see how much we have or what transactions are happening. Our wealth effectively becomes hers… I will still handle scheduling payments that need manual online entry (to keep her workload manageable), but since these use stored account details, I retain no direct access to her account or our money. She truly owns me in every sense… Anything I require or desire is granted only if she deems me worthy.

Are there other FLR/D/s couples here where the Domme holds complete sway over household finances? If yes, how do you manage it? What pros and cons have you experienced? If not, what are your hesitations as either the Domme or sub regarding giving/receiving this level of financial control?