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We headed out of town last weekend to spend time with some kinky pals from the BDSM group we're part of in a nearby city. On Friday, we attended a birthday…

member_ebdcfc1871 28 Aug 2026 #1

We headed out of town last weekend to spend time with some kinky pals from the BDSM group we’re part of in a nearby city.

On Friday, we attended a birthday bash for one of our group’s long-standing trustees who hit the big 5-0. It was meant to be a surprise party, but that idea kind of fell flat when his submissive (the hostess) couldn’t get him out of the house!:squigglemouth: Still, it was quite entertaining—not overly kinky… just some nude swimming and an extended spanking session where each guest delivered 50 whacks to the birthday boy’s sub. She endured over 1,200 hits on her beautiful backside.:bigsmile: Lucky she is a pain slut!

Afterward, we drove to another friend’s place for our weekend stay (they have a spacious and gorgeous home). Sleep quickly claimed Goddess and me (neither of us had much rest in the days prior).

Saturday was spent helping our hosts tidy up and prepare their private dungeon, getting everything ready for Sunday’s big event. Once done, we enjoyed a lovely naked swim in their indoor pool (have I mentioned how LOVELY this house is?!?) followed by dinner out. Post-meal, we formed a caravan to the local dungeon for an exclusive members-only party. It was wonderful; Goddess and I had a blast. She used her new floggers on me as well as her single tail… it hurt sooo good!:tongue:

Another late night followed by lots of sleeping in before Sunday’s main event…

Sunday.. wow! We started with plenty more nude swimming, then some casual play around the house before dinner. Afterward came several intense scenes, including mine…

Goddess was a bit peeved because I ate without asking during dinner, so she sent me to the spanking bench where She was quite brutal. Then She moved me to the medical table, strapped me down and “warmed up” with some INTENSE CBT (did i mention She was upset?) then proceeded to slide needles through the head of my cock… OH MY GOD DID THAT HURT! I was so deep into subspace by that point all I could do was groan (and apparently scream…). Afterwards, I just lay on the floor at Her feet under a blanket and worshipped Her… it was incredibly intense:bigsmile:

That night there was of course more nude swimming before bed, and then i even got the privilege of bringing Goddess to a nice orgasm before we drifted off (no orgasm for me though:xd: ).

The next morning we rose late, helped our hosts clean up, and went out for brunch before heading home. There I pleased Goddess three more times until being told to put Her toy away (again, no orgasm for me:cry: ).

A few notable highlights from the weekend…

  • I spent most of it nude (along with two other submissive men in our hosts’ house), and both Goddess and i were really pleased. This lifestyle is becoming increasingly “normal” for us, and these things feel so natural now. (naked males, clothed females is really hot and just fits perfectly).
  • Goddess tried playing with others for the first time this weekend. She spanked a female submissive on Friday and demoed Her toys on another friend Sunday. She also had a cool scene Saturday night with a male sub (a bi-sexual man… hmmm… ). On Sunday, she helped another young mistress perform CBT on her male sub in the living room (it involved ball crushing/foot stomping). Goddess admitted She didn’t enjoy playing with girls as much; it wasn’t until Sunday that She enjoyed playing with males (She really likes CBT:tongue: ).
  • Overall, the weekend was hugely fun and allowed us to slip back into our kinky lifestyle after hiding it all summer while our daughter was home from college.
  • Goddess loved being around other female dominants. The longer we live this way, the more comfortable She becomes; with each event, Her confidence grows and She finds Her groove.

Now the post-weekend drop (for both sub and Dom) is coming!:cry: