Female led relationships discussion

My wife and I have been playing around with FLR and orgasm control for a few months, actually ever since we tied the knot in September. It’s always been an enjoyable game between us, and I’ve become much more attuned to her needs, making me a better partner overall. However, today sparked a massive argument over some issues I’m currently resolving through my lawyer with my ex-wife.

Tonight, after roughly 36 hours of freedom, she locked me up again. Those 36 hours were the longest stretch of liberty since our wedding. But this time, when she put the lock in place, she was visibly furious. It’s the first time I can recall her locking me away with such anger.

We have a flight scheduled for five days from now, and she has already promised to get us to the airport early so that I can undergo a personal inspection without removing my device. She wants me to be humiliated by it. Then, I presume, I’ll need to do the same on the return trip. Honestly, I’m quite terrified that she will make me endure this humiliation, and I’m unsure how to handle it.

She’s informed me that I must remain locked until things are sorted out with my ex-wife. That makes sense and seems reasonable, but since she is traveling with me, it feels like, for safety’s sake, she should allow me to unlock just before security and re-lock right after we pass through. She knows I’ll stay chaste and can keep an eye on the situation.

I’m so anxious and don’t know what to do about my predicament. If I knew that a bit of humiliation was all it entailed, I could accept it easily enough. But now, in this environment, I fear ending up on some kind of watch list or even worse, being turned away from the flight entirely.

What should I do?