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I’m a 31-year-old submissive guy. I’ve picked up quite a bit since being with an experienced older dominant woman when I was 25.

We’ve tried out short-term chastity, feminization, domination, pain, humiliation, and pretty much everything else back then.

Now I live with my girlfriend of two years. She’s lovely, beautiful, and sharp-minded. I feel she ranks above me. She has always had a curiosity about BDSM, and we’ve experimented a little together. We own floggers, ball gags, and other goodies… We go to many fetish parties in Miami since the nightlife down here is fantastic.

The other night during sex she took charge and told me to get into a chastity device because she wants me wearing it at the next party. She also said we would buy female clothes for myself, including locking 6-inch heels that I’ll be expected to wear once we return home from the event.

You can guess how thrilled I am. I really hope she becomes more dominant often, and the thought of her keeping me locked makes my head spin. She has denied me a few times before where I promised not to climax for a weekend, and I fell in love with her all over again during those periods.

I don’t want to pressure her or push too hard. But I wonder if anyone here can help me demonstrate the benefits of a femdom relationship to her?