Female led relationships discussion

I’ve been wondering: often when I see a clip or picture of chastity/strapon related stuff, the guy is in female clothes like stockings and panties. For myself, I like femdom and whatever follows, but when it comes to sissyfication my line is crossed if you know what I mean. I like to be a masculine guy and personally could not find myself in clothes like that. I respect other people’s kinks and fetishes but am I the only one in chastity without being a “sissy”? Please don’t take this the wrong way, I am really wondering.