Female led relationships discussion

My KH Wife (Dream Girl as I must call her) administers to me what she calls “reflection” about three or four times a week. This involves a paddling and whipping administered to my ass while I read passages to her from her favorite FemDom D/s books. Once I can not read well because of the gasps she knows it hurts and is not a comfortable spanking anymore. Today she dispensed with the reading, used her usual two paddles and started in hard. She then pulled out a rattan cane about a yard long and 3/8 inch thick and began using it on me. Ouch!!! the pain immediately went from about 3 to a 9. Holly shit it hurts and could easily bring tears. “If it doesn’t hurt we’re just playing a game, you need to get way out of your comfort zone for this to do you any good” was her response when I commented on the severity of the cane. Anyone else here getting caned by their KH/Owner/Mistress? Looks like I’m going to be getting regularly as a consequence for mistakes, or poor/substandard behaviour. That along with five week denial periods, 24/7 chastity, and lots of rules and chores…