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Okay. Here is something to discuss. Hello there. Nowadays, in an FLR (Female Led Relationship), the man is expected to refrain from masturbation and wait…

member_4dafc6d599 31 Aug 2026 #1

Okay. Here is something to discuss. Hello there. Nowadays, in an FLR (Female Led Relationship), the man is expected to refrain from masturbation and wait for his woman. My recent confusion stems from this: I always believed that a male should not hint, suggest, or ask for sexual release. For instance, he shouldn’t say things like ‘I’m horny’, ‘I miss fucking you’, or ‘my balls are full’. I used to think these were punishable offences. I also thought the whole point of FLR was that the Female decides when She is horny and how She wants to cum - mostly through oral pleasure and everything else before intercourse. The male isn’t allowed to ask about intercourse, as this falls outside his submission to Her pleasures. Furthermore, I believed that once finally told to start fucking, the man must wait for her instructions on when to cum. Often, after being satisfied, a Female will just roll over and fall asleep, feeling no guilt leaving the male horny and blue-balled. The man becomes even more frustrated because he cannot ask/beg/hint about intercourse, yet then has to do so regarding his own release. However, it seems many websites promote begging and asking permission to cum. This really confuses me. What is the truth? Can you let the Female know that you would like release? Or is it generally forbidden? **EDIT: **I am talking about FLR without chastity-belts. Also, I want to know what a strict Female typically does. All of this is just generalisation. Or, feel free to share your opinion on what is best and why…

member_6231679314 31 Aug 2026 #2

Ana's slave, Hello! I would say first that there is no "in general." Every FLR relationship is unique, just as every male-dom one is, and like any vanilla marriage. Some have guides along the lines of what you described as your previous thoughts; many do not. It really depends on the individuals in the relationship to establish these things. SB