Female led relationships discussion

I realize it might not count as “official” submission, but does anyone else find pleasure in handling things on their own dime? Whether the people are colleagues or friends, I truly like letting them be the center of attention, whether that means listening up or following through. There are a few folks in my circle who sort of take advantage of this dynamic and use me for it, and I wish there were more such individuals. It’s entirely nonsexual… does anyone else have similar thoughts or stories?