Chastity device discussions and reviews discussion

Hello everyone,

It feels like chastity isn’t quite clicking for me or my partner the way we’d hoped…:-( I started with a CB6000 but the rings chafed my balls raw. I read up on the forums and sanded down the inner ring slightly, which helped somewhat. However, night-time erections kept me awake - I definitely have that ‘grower’ type… Then one middle of the night it snapped at the fixing pins near the top. I swapped out the spacer for another go but hit the exact same issue (without any sanding this time)…

So I sent that back and gave a BON4 a try. The fit was better and felt more secure, yet the ring still rubbed, leading to lacerations on both my penis and balls…so I stopped wearing it for now…

After taking some advice here, I went with the dickcage. First impressions were good..but then the pin broke for no apparent reason which I replaced. Then I noticed that if you bend slightly wrong while sweating, my balls can just pop out. After this happening twice, it kind of defeats the purpose…I’m currently using the standard 45mm ring… I’m thinking about buying a 40mm one but getting everything through initially isn’t exactly easy lol…

My partner and I aren’t looking for permanent long term chastity; she likes having me locked up, but we have a very active sex life. She mentioned that locking me for two or three days max is fine since she’d miss me too much otherwise…

I’ve got around £200 to spend right now. With four kids living at home, it needs to be discreet and comfortable…

Was considering whether the curve would suit better than the cb6000 but don’t want anything that’s going to chafe me raw… Or perhaps a metal recommendation? I don’t want to spend a fortune though; all those belts are way too pricey. The ones I’ve seen online seem to be just one design, and I need something where I can keep my bum clean (for obvious reasons) as well as ideally keeping the cock secure?

It’s quite a long email??? Some help me if possible please! Thanks, Phil