Female led relationships discussion

I’m not in chastity, but fascinated by the concept — particularly by male chastity’s effect on how two people relate to each other sexually. Please bear with me. The “mind fucking” experience on men has been talked about endlessly. I’m interested in the mental effect on a woman of knowing she (almost) literally has a man’s cock in her pocket. Does she become more interested in sex, in the man she has locked up or in men in general? I asked these questions on another kink board and all the women who responded (unscientifically, of course) reported being thrilled by the power that male chastity gave them. Several called it “powerfully erotic.” Other comments were “I love it”…”It makes me happy”…“so much evil wickedness can be had.” These were kinky women, of course, but it seemed significant that one wrote, “I’ve mentioned it to women and they get a wicked gleam in their eyes…love it!” So, perhaps there is something in many women that makes them excited by having this sort of power. Here is why I ask: Lots of long-married men complain about wives who have lost interest in sex. Is this a solution? And, if so, I have to also ask: If such men try to introduce male chastity into their marriages, could they be accurately accused of trying to manipulate women — that is, of trying to get their minds to run in new ways by artificial means? Does this bother anyone?