Female led relationships discussion

My wife has been hunting for a chastity device suitable for long-term wear. It doesn’t need to be taken off for cleaning, is reasonably comfortable under normal conditions, and so on. Until now, we haven’t found anything that met all those criteria.

Last week I was traveling for business in Germany and stopped by a sex shop in Frankfurt. By the way, Germans might have the best toys of anyone. What caught my eye was a heavy steel cockring that splits into two halves, held together by recessed cap screws with standard hexagonal allen keys. The salesperson pointed out that the beauty of this split design is you can use a smaller diameter ring; if it were solid, it would be too small to get on. He noted that a 42mm diameter becomes completely unremovable when screwed shut.

Then my mind started working. I asked him if he could supply security screws with a little post in the center of the hex recess so standard allen wrenches won’t work. To my surprise, he said this was his most common request and they do stock them. These are 5-sided (not 6) with unequal sides, making it virtually impossible to find commercially available tools to undo them. He then asked if I wanted to see other models. Curious, I said yes, and they brought out two more items. One was just a very large, heavy ring, but the other one was exactly what we had been looking for. It has about 50 small, dull spikes inside; if you get hard, the pain would be horrible. I know this because we own such a device, though it can’t be locked on.

I asked to try it out, and he agreed. We started with a 42mm diameter and I screwed it on. I had to concentrate on getting and staying completely soft, but finally got it tightened down. It was comfortable enough while totally soft, but when I started to masturbate the pain became unbearable. I bought it right there, realizing this is the “Chastity Belt” we’d been seeking. No need ever to remove it for hygiene or inspections. Completely unremovable and secure if my wife has the key, plus a terrible tease because I can see and touch my cock but dare not let it get hard. I also liked that it has two D-rings, one on each half, which can be used to attach a leash or padlock a chain to it and connect the chain to any convenient object. My wife likes limiting my freedom by chaining me to the numerous eye bolts installed around our house and garage. The lower D-ring might make a good spot for a small tag stamped with “Property of Mistress xxxx.” I think I’ll have one made and surprise her.

I quickly paid for it and left it on while walking back to my hotel. On the way, I stopped for a beer. The barmaid was really pretty with very exposed large breasts. Suddenly I felt a stabbing pain from the cock ring and realized this would indeed be a challenge. I’ll let you all know how it goes after a few days.