Female led relationships discussion

Alrighty, my contraption will be back in a day or two since it’s away for resizing. My query is should I inform her once it arrives via post? You see she has been complaining about how free I’ve been the past couple of weeks, and I can’t blame her because I gave her no help around the house nor affection. I haven’t had any desire or reason to. I do love her deeply though; it’s just that I enjoy my freedom! I know being locked is good for me as it keeps our relationship fun and productive. While locked, I romance her and assist with everything so I can earn a release. But when free, I am never sexually frustrated. So should I ride this out? Help, what do I do? On one hand, I could tell her; on the other, guess what lol.