Female led relationships discussion

As a Mistress I don’t always have to be the strictest and can sometimes drift from my usual path of dominating men! However, one of my online subs is currently locked up for my enjoyment and doing his best to influence me. Yesterday after lots of texts—everything from normal chat down to dirty talk—he was begging permission to cum. The issue with me usually is that this guy has real stamina; I often get very aroused wanting to watch him masturbate, which pleases me. But since he missed his chance to cum last week, I’ve decided he will remain locked for a good while yet! So in order to maintain my authority I absolutely had to say no! To be honest, I was quite disappointed as the slave left on a business trip dressed in a charcoal pinstripe suit and crisp white shirt with very shiny shoes. And underneath—oh my god—a silk boned corset knicker set!!! I am literally drooling while writing this! But today, I feel pretty good about myself for resisting temptation. I just wonder if other Mistresses ever get tempted by their subs?