Personal ads - Looking for a keyholder or sub? discussion

Greetings, How can a person express their needs and wants without coming across as either too needy or overly demanding? I believe sincerity and honesty are the bedrock of any connection. After looking inward, I’ve reached a point in my life where chastity feels less like a dream and more like an essential truth. By necessary, I mean it’s not about survival but rather living joyfully in alignment with who I was meant to be. The physical cage is just a symbol for the state of mind and heart I aspire to…it represents confinement that brings devotion and peace, directed toward the one I gladly choose to serve. While forced servitude implies being held against your will, my desired relationship involves giving submission with gratitude and respect to someone who chooses me, strengthening our bond by embracing our distinct roles. My part is to obey quietly, pouring all my energy into this person…hoping that emotional tie evolves into a profound mutual respect where adoration becomes more than just sentiment—it becomes reality. For me, this isn’t play; it’s how I live. As an adult man, I’ve consciously chosen to remain chaste and offer myself willingly to another. There are many subtle details too numerous to list here, but if you’re open to sharing this path with me, I’d welcome the chance to talk more. Thanks for reading.