Female led relationships discussion

I’m feeling really happy right now. We haven’t quite gotten the lifestyle to work properly in the past, and M isn’t particularly keen on it. Lately I asked if we could give it another shot, promising she wouldn’t feel like she was acting out a part. I wear my cage constantly, taking it off only when I go to sleep. She never brings up the device herself, but she’s completely aware that I have it on. I hardly ever mention it because I know she prefers not to discuss it. We cuddle often; I regularly rub her feet, back, and shoulders. In my head, I feel like I’m being a submissive partner, though I don’t think she sees me quite that way. My main desire is simply pleasing her. I dream about her taking on more of the traditional dominant role, but I suspect it won’t fully happen just yet. She knows how I feel, so I live in hope, and if it doesn’t come to pass, I’ll still enjoy making her happy.