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“I am a straight guy married for many years. Back in the day, I realized my true nature is that of a submissive partner to a dominant woman (femdom). Still, it took me ages for my wife to agree to let her take more charge over our sex life. Like so many wives do, she showed some surface-level interest but just couldn’t bring herself into what she saw as a bit unusual or deviant dynamic.

While trying to win her over, I proposed that male chastity could be the perfect way for her to exert dominance without needing to deal with the physical aggression (like spanking or whipping) typical of femdom—a thing she explicitly said she didn’t want. It also solved her issue with me sneaking off to masturbate when she wasn’t looking. We actually bought a few devices, including brands like Curve and even one custom piece from Ms Lori. They worked okay in theory, but I managed to cheat them by masturbating while still locked up. Plus, they are kind of bulky, and cleaning yourself gets harder because the device is so complex.

I was starting to think my wife would never get on board with my fantasies until last month when she finished reading the 50 Shades of Gray books. Those stories really seemed to resonate with her regarding staying true to one’s own sexual nature. So, I worked up the nerve and asked if she’d be willing to try male chastity again as part of our relationship. She said ‘yes,’ but only on the condition that we used a device that wouldn’t result in ‘smelly balls.’

I already knew about KTB-type (Kali’s Teeth Bracelet) devices, and I felt their compact size might satisfy my wife’s no-smell requirement. So I started looking online for what was available. There is a popular style sold by several sex shops, so I bought one, only to discover after it arrived that it was really more of a short-term toy than the ads suggested. It was heavy, and importantly, the wide gap between the large ‘points’ meant I could still slip out easily even with the smallest size.

I got quite down thinking I’d never find a KTB that truly worked, so I frantically browsed until I found one made by Male Chastity Now. After emailing Mark at MCTN to sort things out, I sent in my order. A few days later, the package arrived with my new KTB, and everything changed for me.”,