Introductions discussion

New to the site so I wanted to introduce myself. Background I’m a 25 year old living in a female led marriage in San Francisco. We have a son who is little over a year old. My wife, until recently, would mainly lock me up for play, when she was feeling insecure, or on my request. Although the requests on my end have stopped since it felt self defeating to volunteer submission, so I let my wife use her discretion and hopefully longer term wear will follow. I’m currently wearing a mature metal device Seeking I joined this site to meet fellow locked males, preferably local or other parents, to help with transition to long term/permanent, discuss complications, hang out, and a possible gym buddy(it would make me feel less self aware knowing I’m not the only person in chastity).