Female led relationships discussion

Thanks for looking. I need help and I need it quickly, please. My wife and I will be having our 10th wedding anniversary on April 7th (2 weeks from now), and with the changes in our relationship to a FLR with mild D/s, I finally asked her permission to use a renewal of our wedding vows to also include a dedication/collaring ceremony to cement the changes of the last year (has it really been a year?). SWMBO is still learning her role as Dom, as I am with sub, but she is not an aggressive, extreme person. Our relationship is obviously new, and still developing, but will likely never get into whips, suits, and pain. We are in the swinging lifestyle, SWMBO has a regular play partner, and I have been given hope of some opportunities to play with a lady who has become our friend and mentor for both of us, both in the lifestyle and now as a trained Dom helping SWMBO learn her role, while also helping to properly train me. What I am hoping to get from this thread is help with the ceremony, especially the rewording of the wedding vows to fit the FLR nd D/S roles we now have. The big thing is that I need to get this together before 30 March so I can pass it to the Officiant, for her review. I have envisioned the ceremony, and have the framework/order, I just need help with the wording. Mistress’s, and those who have done this PLEASE help me do this properly and most importantly, in a way that shows OUR relationship as I tried to describe above. Many thanks for the help I’m sure will come, and I will try to get something posted about the planned flow of events to get thoughts on that once I have it hashed together. with great respect, Caged Wolf