Female led relationships discussion

I’m struggling to get back into my Dominant role right now. I suspect this is largely because I no longer feel like a Domme in my day-to-day life. Back when I was really enjoying the position, I would make sure to wear my nicest underwear, skirts, and boots, feeling quite sexy… but lately, I’ve been stuck in a student/mother cycle where I seem to spend most of my time in jeans and sweatshirts before collapsing into bed wearing just a t-shirt. (Apologies if this disappoints anyone!) I absolutely must find a way to bring my Domme persona back into what I wear. I can’t strut around university all day in high-heeled boots (the campus is huge, and I can’t keep pace with the other students!) and I need to strike that balance between looking sharp and appearing too dressed up. This query is mostly about how Doms dress and feel, but I’d also appreciate hearing from subs/sissies about their thoughts on what we wear (I won’t reveal your secrets… don’t be shy!) HELP!!!!!