Female led relationships discussion

Alright, I’ll begin by thanking everyone at the mansion for being so welcoming and friendly when I first introduced myself and started posting. It’s not always easy joining an online group, especially if you get ignored just because you’re new.

So here is my question, addressed to anyone who wants to answer: how do you handle interactions with other dominant or submissive types in everyday vanilla settings like your job? Do you catch yourself “reading” people—thinking things like “she’s definitely the boss” or “he’d make a great sub”—or does it stay mostly in the background, part of what happens behind closed doors? Also, do you ever end up taking charge (or yielding) to others outside of sexual contexts or specific lifestyle activities?

Sorry if this seems silly or obvious. I’ve become really curious about this lately and wanted to hear from people with experience. And if it’s better for me to just keep quiet and enjoy my chastity, feel free to tell me! Thanks!