Seeking · London · Service-minded
I want to be useful and I honestly do not know how yet
- Hoping to find
- small jobs, and the truth about whether I did them properly
- Experience
- None at all. Two years of reading and a job that suggests I might be suited.
- Somewhere around
- north London, London
I want to be useful to somebody and I genuinely do not know how yet, which probably makes me a poor bet, and I am writing anyway. I can cook three things. I cannot drive. I am not handy. What I have is time, willingness, and no illusions about how little that is worth on its own.
Twenty six, north London, I work in a care home and I am good at that, which is the only evidence I can offer that I am not inventing this about myself. I am steady with people having a bad day and I do not need to be thanked afterwards.
What I would like is to be given small things to do and told honestly whether I did them properly. I learn quickly when somebody tells me the truth and extremely slowly when they are being kind. I would far rather start with errands and shopping and the tedious end of a week than with anything that sounds impressive.
I am not asking to be taken on as a project. I am asking to be shown how a household works the way any sensible person shows a newcomer, which is to say handed something small, watched, and corrected on the spot.
No money in any direction and I would not know what to do with the suggestion. Not looking for anything sexual to start with, because I would be no good at it in this state. Not looking for a woman who wants somebody impressive. Not looking to be laughed at, which I know nobody can actually promise.
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