Seeking · London · Service-minded
Van, tools, every other Saturday, and a list I would like to be given
- Hoping to find
- a woman with a list of jobs and a standard she wants them done to
- Experience
- Two arrangements over nine years, both of them mostly practical.
- Somewhere around
- the east, London
I have a van, a full set of tools and every other Saturday free, and what I would like is a woman who leads and who has a list of things that need doing. That is the entire post. There is nothing sexual in it and I am not being coy about that.
Fifty two, east London, I fit kitchens for a living and I am good at it. Shelves, flat pack, a door that has not shut properly for years, a garden that has got away from somebody. I have done exactly this inside two arrangements before and both times it was the part of the week I looked forward to.
What I want out of it is being useful to one particular person rather than useful in general, and being told how she wants it done rather than deciding for myself. Being given a standard and held to it is the whole appeal. If the shelf is crooked I would like to hear about the shelf.
No money moves in either direction. I am not for hire, I am not asking to be kept, and if anybody offers to pay me I will assume we have badly misunderstood each other and stop there.
Not looking for anything that has to end up in a bedroom, and I say that with no judgement of the people for whom it does. Not looking for a woman who wants a handyman and no relationship whatsoever. I would like to belong somewhere. Not looking to be treated as somebody's fourth quote.
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